Learn to peel the layers off, one by one, and let others see the real you. And, likewise, look for the real “them”. Each encounter you have gives you (and them) a chance to make a positive mark on lives. If you are willing to reveal yourself, those marks can be bona fide and truly effective. Be the person you are. And, if in revelation, you discover areas to improve, well, then the revealing was well-worth the effort. Right??!!!