be a thermostat.
I’ve always been that person who would walked into a room and conform to what was around me whether it was ‘hot ot cold’ didn’t matter to me. I would be easily influenced into whatever it was that was going on at the moment instead of setting the standards for myself. Whatever the atmosphere was I would ‘change’ to be that, even if it made me uncomfortable. I would want to please everyone around me. So that meant I had to be what they wanted me to be.
So this may I challenge myself to be a thermostat and ‘set the temperature’ instead of a thermometer and take the temperature.
Be who you are, not what others want you to be.